I drove up and down the streets in my Mercedes 430 convertable, top down, screaming out his name as load as I could at 1:30 Am. I had a Reminginton Knife, A mini baseball bat and 4 feet of steel tow rope. Police found me first. If you saw me in suit you just wouldn't believe it.

Wow, another night in Erieville. I think her acting sweet and normal is her way of compartmentalizing what she knows is wrong as well as her way of keeping your anger in check until her trip on Oct.9th. Easy on the threats. I would suggest you cary a VAR on you, you may want to record some of your conversations with her, you just don't know.

Hope you are OK man, take your time. I hope she didn't confuse you too much?

ladybug I am so sorry that things are turning ot this way, but better now than later, why prolong the pain. Focus on you and your children and less on him and what he is doing, stop communication with him, he has chosen his path right or wrong. If you follow the 180 you'll start to feel better about yourself. As Threetimes has pointed out, children from a broken home do better than children in a broken home, one happy parent is enough. Your soon to be ex is a lost soul and nothing you can do will change him. Just show him that you wll be ok regardless and that you are moving on, it's up to him if he wants to catch up. Stay strong.

Hold your ground Mike. As long as you are married and under the same roof she is not to bang any other men or get the fu*k out. It is almost over, she must be able to keep her legs together for another 5 weeks. File a restraining order against him, his wife will be made aware. I know you don't want to rock the boat but maybe you just tell her that if she disrespects you like that again that no more Mr. Nice Guy, you will make her life a living hell. What a low life, sorry, she is still your wife.

Tell him what his options are. He looks for a new job or she does, if nether is willing to budge expose them and start talking to a lawyer. Is she in a relationship? If so did you tell her spouse? They can't be working together unless he is willing to sign a post nup giving up his rights to equities if you divorce because of a new or renewed affair. They can't work together, your asking for trouble.

Sad, good to see you back. I am glad you are getting past Robin and her sick and disfunctional family. What have you done that has helped you move on from her?

I guess you will soon find out if blood wins over money. Should tell you a lot.

Crying is a form of manipulation, there is more wrong with her than you know, what a foolish woman. I can't wait until you expose his cheating ass. I hope his wife owns a collection of samurai swords.

broken, one of the things I recommend that can make you feel safer as well measure the seriousness of her remorse is a post nuptial agreement as part of the R. If you divorce because of a new infidelity the split isn't 50/50 on marital property but 80/20 in favour of you. If she is serious and committed to fixing the damage she has caused she will agree to help you feel safe with her again. Just a thought.

zagman good for you, you really manned up. I think you surprised your wife with your strength, she sees what she lost. The only way to be sure that she won't cheat if ever you decided to take her back is to have her agree to a post nuptial agreement. If you divorce because she cheats again, she gives up her rights to your marrital property, instead of a 50/50 split it's a 80/20 split in your favour. They think twice about strange dick when they have a financial consequence. Stay strong friend.

Good for you Mike. If she wants to bang assclown it won't be while she is living under the same roof as you. Help her pack and get the hell away from you. You might want a restraining order to keep OM away from your children and your home. What a horrible person, did she walk into The Twilight Zone? Tell her family to come and get her, she needs somewhere to live, tell them about her plans.

Bye.

I'd go with the "Friend This".

feeling......One of the best ways to meet ladies is with your children specially in a supermarket. Just ask a nice looking lady how to prepare something your thinking of buying, they love to help a man with children. A great way to thank them is to invite them over for the meal. As BWHK says, it's the cloths. Mike I am glad you are coping so well, she is going to miss you man.

Try SurvivingInfidelity.com they have a wayward side.

Sorry, you won't get sympathy here, were all betrayed spouses. Good friends don't fuck their best friends man, bet you had him use a condom. Everyone makes mistakes but blaming it on alcohol means shit here. You had a choice and you of your own free will chose to fuck your friend over, you could have walked but decided his dick was worth the shit that could follow if caught. A mistake is turning left when you should have turned right, adding a column wrong, riding your best friends boyfriends dick is a slutty, selfish betrayal of your former best friend. You did it because you wanted to, no other reason, once you accept the fact that your not as good a person as you think you are because your still keeping it from her for one reason, she'll kick your ass out of her life because she won't agree with your thinking. This is your burden to carry, none of this will make a difference in my life, but it has in yours. You are not a honest person. Sorry, that is your truth.

David you have been a model husband, you have given her so many opportunities to come clean and help you to heal and ithe disaster she has created of your marriage. You can't make her do shit except leave through a divorse. She ended your marriage when she consciously decided to become your budies mistress, she knew the consequences before she spread her legs. She had to decide to walk from your marriage if caught right from day one. So no it is not you that is destroying your relationship, she did that more than 15 years ago. All you are doing David is finishing what she started. If she gets married in a year you know that it won't be for love but convenience, I wonder if she will have some strange dick on the side with him too. Tell her it will be her responcibility to tell you son the truth, goes with the territory. It is now about you being happy, don't stay in a broken relationship, you deserve better. You will never, ever trust her again, maybe with small things, but never as you should a wife. Had she come clean instead of the constant lieing, you might have had a chance, but again this was her choice. She will be very sorry that she threw you away, what a stupid, stupid woman.

The Karma Bus will find her. He'll have a new girlfriend within two months of them being together. They always cheat on each other, thats what they feel most comfortable doing. Your brother will meet a former Dallas cheerleader and live happily ever after, his ex will have boobs hanging down to her knees in two years. Everything will work out.

Change the sheets, hell start repainting the bedroom and use the sheets to catch paint drips. Get some great 800 thread count designer sheets and let her know her ass is never to touch them, that they are reserved for someone really special and safe. Tell her that you will take her down to the thrift store for something really special for her new place. Better still, see if the motel they used to meet at will sell you their old sheets as a momento, something she's familiar with.

Infidelity is the violation of your promise to each other, marriage is your public declaration of your voluntary contract.

broken, your words flow like poetry, awsome.

I agree with BWHK on this one. It is always worse than they tell you, always. Inviting an ex over for drinks and telling hin just how little she is wearing is really inviting him to come over and bang her, sorry if I sound blunt, but her message didn't sound like she was getting back at him. The sun on my legs and seeing him in jeans just screams,"I'm easy". If she cheats on you before your married, guess what your life will be like after your married. She has issues with boundaries, run asdzxc, run. Your young, this one is broken, find one that is real.

cali the one thing I know for sure is that there is never a right time. At some point you need to decide if being miserable and cheated on is better than happy and broke. You need to feel good about yourself. He has choices, he can jump in anytime and make things right, but he needs to commit to you and your children first. He is a very selfish man. So stay as long as you can take it, but I don't really think this is you. Have you thought about posting an Advertisment for sharing your home with another single mother? There may be someone else in the same situation who is willing to share expenses.

Sorry pal, this site is for those who have been betrayed by infidelity, not for those that fuck up their marriages and destroy their families and come here because the married tramp they are banging is banging someone else. Have the decency to warn your wife that you my have some life threatening STD, please.