My typical client will open the conversation by saying something along the lines of “I can’t even believe that I am calling you.” My answer is, “I am here to help and let me ask you the questions to make it easier on you.”
In order for our marriage to be healed, my husband had to be willing to answer my questions and be completely open and honest with me. If he’d been unwilling we would’ve missed out on the amazing marriage and passion we have today.
Wise people don't cut themselves off from everyone, because of past hurts. They learn to improve themselves, and they learn to recognize who to trust, when to trust and to what degree to trust.
Cost counts. That is a basic fact to realize if you are planning to move. The cost is usually the top priority when relocating. Whether someone or you will shoulder the expenses, it is better to include in your plans the following questions.
The strength to heal a marriage after an affair is something to be proud of. It’s not for the faint of heart. Daring to make your own choice and do what you really want is to be commended and respected. This is neither weakness nor low self-esteem.
Forgiving something as major as betrayal is a process. It takes time to process all of our emotions; anger, grief and sadness. The important thing is to be moving forward from whatever point we are at.
How do you ease the doubts so you can begin creating the relationship you always wanted? It can come down to this simple equation: Trust = Consistency over Time.
Is your marriage in trouble? Have you lost the passion that you once had? Do you believe that if only your partner would change everything would be fine? In this series, discover a powerful process for making your marriage work.