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When you know beyond doubt that your partner has been unfaithful, your next emotional hurdle is knowing how best to confront the reality of this life-shaking episode. Confronting infidelity and a cheating husband or wife is never easy and can easily get out of control. Knowing the right way to approach with your suspicions or evidence will allow you to stay in control and allow the confrontation to go as well as possible.
Joseph Hanoa is the founder of www.marriageadvising.com/, a website that answers questions dealing with couples help.
Dr. Robert Huizenda, The Infidelity Coach, is the founder of www.break-free-from-the-affair.com and author of the book “How to Break Free from the Affair.” He is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and holds a Doctorate of Ministry in Marriage.
When infidelity rears its ugly face, the cheating spouse often explains his/her dilemma with the words, "I Need my Space!"
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"For the past two months...."
For the past two months, my wife has been coming home late on Thursdays. The first time she told me about it was that she and her friends were going out. I didn't think much of it until the recent pattern of not coming home late on Thursdays every other week. The only reason she has given me is she was seeing a female friend of 20 years. I have never confronted her with it but I am having these doubts. Today, I had called her and she said she was swamped with work. I called her at about 710 pm and no answer (at work). So I called her at her cell and she said she got out early and was waiting for a meeting. Am I wrong for feeling this way? I still don't have any answer to my questions.