WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

When you’re ready, we’re ready to help.

“How can I even think about dating anyone?” That’s probably how you felt back when the wounds of infidelity were painfully fresh. But now that you’re ready, this section can help you face dating with confidence, assurance and even joy. Sometimes you may think you won't ever date after divorce or during your separation but it's a step that essential for you to move forward with your life. You don't need to rush into anything and there are things you certainly want to be aware about dating after divorce but we are here to help you.

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In this section you will find:

  • How to be a smart — and fulfilled— dater
  • Where to find the best prospects for you
  • Ways to make sure you’re hearing the truth
  • Dating secrets of the successful dater








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Here's My Story

Surviving Infidelity: 85 You’re probably thinking I don't know what it feels like to be on the other end but I do.

My husband and I have been married 15 years. He is now 40 and I am turning 39 soon. 2 years ago, I ended a 4-year affair with a man 7 years younger than me. He was a family friend who shared birthday parties, get togethers, camping and holidays together along with other friends. My husband worked out of town our 13 years out of our marriage and I was left working full time taking care of our three daughters. My intention of the affair was to never leave my husband and keep it casual since he was a womanizer. I wanted the challenge of making him fall in love with me and he did but I still would not leave my husband even though I was falling in love too. I convinced myself that it was lust and only that. He moved away for 1 1/2 years and has returned with a fiancé and bought a home. We keep in touch via emails and flirt but I can't seem to break into the bad habit because for 2years now everything has changed in my marriage. My husband is now in town all the time and we are newly grandparents. I would say my grandson is the glue in our family now. You’re probably thinking I don't know what it feels like to be on the other end but I do.... I caught my husband cheating with a one-night stand with a client at their hotel. After a phone call one evening, my husband sounded different so I bought a pack of cigarettes (occasional smoker) and drove 2 hrs. away to the hotel and waited for him to come to his room at 5am. Of course he denied it but I knew all the signs, he erased all calls on his cell phone and denied everything. I knew I wouldn't get the truth from him so I made every attempt to find out who this other person was and you will not believe how easy it was. I found out who she worked for, her addresses, cell number, etc. I spoke with her and she was surprised, she old me everything and sounded scared and regretful (only 27 yrs. old). I wanted to tell him, you think you're so cool because you had a young one...well I've been having a 4 years affair with a young one too and he's in love with me.... but I never told him and never will.


09/02/2010 11:34 AM