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Often the victims who are hurt the most from infidelity are the children in a family torn apart by the actions of an unfaithful spouse. And dealing effectively with the emotions of the children places an added burden on already stressed parents. When children are involved, it's inevitably going to be harder for everyone involved. Educating yourself on how to help the kids adjust to your separation or divorce is the first step in the right direction. What you do will make a lasting impression on your child so it is very important to help transition your kid through all the stages. Knowing what to do can make the world of difference for a child stuck in the middle. Contact us today and let us help you on the right track.
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Jennifer Bazner, MA, LLPC, works with individuals and families in crisis, including families racked by infidelity. She is on the staff of www.break-free-from-the-affair as well as the Fountain Hill Center for Counseling and Consultation.
Dr. Charles Sophy currently serves as Medical Director for the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS), which is responsible for the health, safety and welfare of nearly 40,000 foster children.
Every year over one million parents have to talk to their kids about divorce. For each parent, the discussions differ, but the goals of the discussions are universal: to openly and honestly reassure your child of your love.
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It wasn't an "affair" but the regular use of street prostitutes, massage parlours and escort services.
My husband and I have been together for over 20 years, most of it married. Recently he confessed to being unfaithful...during our entire 20-plus year relationship. It wasn't an "affair" but the regular use of street prostitutes, massage parlours and escort services. It began before "us" when he was just a teenager, but the fact that he carried on for so long and even throughout my pregnancies leaves me dumbstruck. He's travelled extensively over the years with his job, which made it much easier for him to hide all this time. But I still feel a complete fool for not knowing until now. This has hit me harder than I ever could have imagined and I no longer know what's real and what isn't anymore. He says he has quit this behaviour forever and is completely prepared to move forward together (we're currently in therapy), but I am struggling with so much that I don't think I'm going to make it. My heart is completely, utterly shattered...