Moving/Relocating

Martin Lukac represents www.RateEmpire.com and www.1AmericanFinancial.com, a finance web-company specializing in real estate and mortgage rates.

Five weeks ago, I packed my things and left the house I shared with my boyfriend of 3 years. He's divorced, kids and more than 10 years older than me. He was cheating. I don't know how or where he met her but I know he called her first sometime at the beginning of April. We went on what I thought was a lovely vacation later that month & he wanted to do a lot of different things sexually there; even had a condom all handy (and we didn't use condoms). Came back & the next day he's calling & texting her like crazy. Two weeks after that I ask him what's going on with him. He looks me in the eye & lies; says nothing's going on. Then says some really nasty, cruel, hurtful things to/about me. I'm so hurt by what he says that I let it slide. Two weeks after that it all blows up. He says he never slept with her & he didn't love her but he makes no attempt to stop me from leaving. In fact he packs up my stuff. We break up over the phone because he doesn't have the guts to see me in person or maybe he just didn't care enough. I know it's over & I know I'll get over it in time but I never knew something could hurt this much. I never imagined that he would or could be so callous. Guess there's always something new to learn in life and hopefully the harder the lesson, the stronger it'll make me. Naturally he's still with her and undoubtedly they're intimate now (even if they weren't before). Strangely enough, in my saner moments, I wish him well. Since he obviously couldn't be happy with me maybe he'll find happiness with her. I don't always feel so generous but I want my life to be positive and happy so I try my best to remember that his cheating is about him and not me, and that somewhere out there is a new and truer love for me.

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