WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

The guide to an infidelity-free marriage.

Whether your marriage is recovering from an affair or if your goal is to keep your new or existing marriage free from infidelity, Infidelity.com’s Prevention can help you build the foundation for a monogamous, happy, thriving and loving relationship. Preventing a spouse from cheating is not bulletproof but you can take steps to help make your marriage stronger which will help prevent infidelity and prevent cheating. Knowing the right steps will help you get started in the right direction. Because you are on this site searching, you have shown you care, now take the next steps and find out what you can do to help prevent infidelity.

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In this section you will find:

  • Is one affair one too many?
  • Positive ways to make fidelity king, and queen, in your relationship
  • Why some marriages fail, and others thrive
  • Methods for keeping vigilant








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Surviving Infidelity: 106 Even if he wasn’t in the picture, I don’t know if I should stay with my husband.

I’m 26 and I’ve been married for almost a year but already feel unhappy and not as in love with my husband as I used to be. I understand that the first year of marriage is a difficult one since you are trying to “settle in” to that way of life. He’s got everything I want, but the physical attraction and love isn’t there, I believe (and those are some big factors!). I feel I’m staying in it for him only and the fact that I don’t want to be alone, too. What if he is the best I can find, what if he’s not? Extremely confused. The last couple of months, I’ve been going out a lot and not wanting to be home at all. I met someone through a co-worker whom I’m extremely attracted to on all levels. I’ve known him for about 3 months. One night I called him to hang out and we ended up sleeping together. It was great since I hadn’t ever had much of a sex life with my husband, even before marriage! Every time I see him, I don’t want to leave – he makes me feel alive! He’s genuinely a good person. Of course, we both feel guilty about it, but feel a lot for each other. He’s being respectful and not putting any pressure on me at all. But even if he wasn’t in the picture, I don’t know if I should stay with my husband, especially after what has happened. He doesn’t know and I don’t know if I should tell him. I keep waffling back and forth as to what to do, for about a month now. Augh, please help!


09/02/2010 11:39 AM