WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

Q: Remarriage after a failed marriage?
A: “I do.”

Of course, the only person who knows if you should remarry is you. You’ve learned — through the ordeal of infidelity — to trust your heart. But you still likely still have questions and concerns. In our Remarriage section, you’ll benefit from how experts in relationships and marriage have helped others deal with the question.

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In this section you will find:

  • What not to do when retying the knot
  • How to tell the kids
  • How to make sure it's better the second time around
  • Why the past shouldn’t foretell the future








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Here's My Story

Surviving Infidelity: 98 I am so deeply wounded, and my self-esteem has plummeted.

My husband, who I always thought adored me, and never would, I think, betray me, did. He developed a friendship with a female who he had worked with professionally (not the same field), and started being friends on line, the wonderful MySpace. Then they exchanged music, soon they were sneaking around meeting for lunch, playing pool, picnicking. My husband denied sexual contact or attraction. But I know it is bull, because he risked everything for this. He claims he always felt I loved him less, it is apparent it is the other way around. I am so deeply wounded, and my self-esteem has plummeted. It has been five months since it ended and I still cry, almost daily. I love my husband but I don't respect him or trust him fully and I do not know if I can ever get that back and I have been with him for seventeen years, and have three children. I do not know when the pain will end, and I do not know what the recidivism rates on infidelity are, but I could not ever go through this again. I believe it is one of the worst things anyone could ever do to someone, particularly someone they love.


09/02/2010 11:37 AM