WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

Can — or should — your relationship be saved?

You’re terribly hurt, and confused. At moments you never want to see your spouse again, and at other times you want to save the relationship. What to do? Second Chance can help.

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In this section you will find:

  • How couples survive infidelity
  • What experts say about “forgive and forget”
  • How to really gauge your feelings
  • The first steps of creating a second chance








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Surviving Infidelity: 94 He says it means nothing to him anymore and he wants to leave it in the past.

Today is the 1-year mark for me finding out that my husband and my best friend were having an affair. I thought the pain would be less by now. We were separated, but never in my wildest dreams did I think it would be forever, or that he would stray. He had not been working and the financial stress was so much that is why I left. Thinking maybe something would change. It certainly did. My friend who always told me she didn't know how I could deal with him; decided she wanted to give it a try. It was a very painful time, but he broke it off and our marriage is better than ever. I feel I have forgiven, I just can't forget. And the pain is still so sharp. I do not know all the details - that is something that bothers me. I WANT TO KNOW. He says it means nothing to him anymore and he wants to leave it in the past. We have talked about our relationship and I know he is remorseful. She would not talk to me about it or see me. Here a year later, I still feel the need to sit with her, look her in the eye and ask - How? Why?


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