WHAT YOU'LL LEARN

When separation or divorce is
the best answer.

While separation or divorce are monumentally difficult steps to take, this section can help lessen the pain, trauma and sense of helplessness. You’ll read invaluable advice from expert divorce and family attorneys, mediators, family and relationship therapists, and others who can help you every step of the way. When your separation or divorce is a result of infidelity or cheating spouse, it is wise to be well informed of the separation process and steps you can take to protect yourself.

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In this section you will find:

  • How to select the right divorce lawyer
  • Ways to protect yourself — emotionally and financially
  • The best plan of action
  • Surviving divorce and moving ahead








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Surviving Infidelity: 96 I never imagined I'd ever think about a divorce from my husband.

Unfortunately, I discovered my husband's infidelity the day after my 49th birthday on October 9, 2006. This 5-year affair (3 years sexual, 2 years non-sexual) has left me feeling so betrayed. Not only did he break my heart, he discussed our sex life with her. I feel so betrayed and disrespected. I never discussed our sex life with anyone and to talk to this woman is humiliating. Lie upon lie has left me so distrusting. I can't believe I have been with this man for 23 years (married 15.5 years). If I had known this five years ago, I would not be sending this message. He has maintained contact with her since October, the last time was as recent as 3/9/07. I'm graduating in June with my AA degree in Paralegal Studies. I welcome the opportunity to separate myself from this situation, but we have two little girls. My life has changed so much in the last six months, I never imagined I'd ever think about a divorce from my husband. But this has left me so hurt, it seems like my only option.


03/13/2010 12:58 PM
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