Sign 8: Having New Friends

Tony DeLorenzo and Dawn Ricci

These signs are from The 28 Tell-Tale Signs of a Cheating Spouse written by Anthony DeLorenzo, a nationally known private investigator, and his wife Dawn Ricci who is also a leading expert in the field. Tony has appeared on Oprah and many national shows.

When the spouse uses new business associates or new friends as an excuse, there is no possibility of your checking up on them. There is no chance of your running into these new friends.

CASE STUDY - "ANTHONY"

"My wife is a teacher who has been transferred to a new school this past year. I felt really bad for her, because I know that she loved the other school and was very friendly with the staff.

The transition to this new job has been very rough. My wife complained that the other teachers had a click for years, and it was very hard for her to become "one the gang." Finally, after many months, things started to get better for her at work. Gradually, she would come home and tell me all kinds of stories about her day and the other teachers, and we would laugh about it.

Also, the same names kept coming up into our conversations and I started feel curious about her new life and her new friends. Occasionally, they would go for dinner together. One night, I asked if I could join them so that I could meet even one and my wife got all nervous telling me that none of the other teachers were bring their spouses. On the surface everything seemed to be all right, but for some reason I just kept having these uneasy feelings that I just couldn't put my finger on.

Everything came to a head when she told me she was going out of town several days on a teachers' conference. She seemed quite anxious when she told about it, and for some reason was extremely confused about all the details, suc­h as which hotel she was staying at. I wanted to trust her; but I just couldn't. I called school the following day, pretending to be someone else and asked for information about the teachers' conference.

Why was I surprised when the person on the phone told me that I must be mistaken since there was no conference scheduled at that time?"

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

Having new friends mentioned is a possibility of having an affair. The spouse needs to have an alibi, one which you are unable to track. When the spouse uses new business associates or new friends as an excuse, there is no possibility of your checking­ up on them. There is no chance of your running into these new friends.

Listen closely for name dropping of these new friends. For example, you may ask another associate, who should know your spouse's acquaintances, about that meeting last Thursday and how it went. Listen for the tone in the associate's voice. Does it sound like they have no idea what you are talking about? Do they begin to hem and haw at a loss for words? Or do they say "it went great"?
 
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