Should I Stay Or Should I Go?
Anne Bercht,director of Beyond Affairs Network,co-founder,with her husband Brian, of www.passionatelife.ca, a website dedicated to creating a healthy, passionate marriage. Authors of “My Husband’s Affair Became the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me.”
'My Husband's Affair ...' in a chapter titled 'Should I Stay or Should I Go?' outlines from my personal experience my own ambivalence towards my marriage for a long period of time, and the factors that eventually led to my own decision to stay. These factors may also help you in making your own best decision for your future.
There are times in life when we are in-between. We are like Linus in the old Charlie Brown cartoon without our blanket. Our life as we had known it has ended, a door has closed and we cannot go back. The past is the past. Yet the future? What will become of my future? I do not know. My future has become the great unknown. Can I have happiness? I am in-between past and future. I am like a trapeze artist who has just let go of the trapeze, somersaulting through mid air. Will I catch the new trapeze on the other side? When you are in this uncertain place, being patient and taking things one day at a time makes the present situation more tolerable and the future easier with the passage of time.
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