Cheating Spouse Sign 9: Smelling Of Perfume Or Alcohol

Tony DeLorenzo and Dawn Ricci

These signs are from The 28 Tell-Tale Signs of a Cheating Spouse written by Anthony DeLorenzo, a nationally known private investigator, and his wife Dawn Ricci who is also a leading expert in the field. Tony has appeared on Oprah and many national shows.

When a female is dating a male, she will always wear perfume and lipstick. Many married men tell their girlfriends that they are single.

CASE STUDY - "DANA"

"My husband is a stock broker. Besides being in a high stress situation all day long at work, he is expected to entertain clients on most evenings. Occasionally, he was happy to have me join him for these dinners, and most of the time we enjoyed them. . also gave us the opportunity to spend some more time together.

All this stopped when I got my new job. I, too, had extended hours and much more responsibility with this new position, so it was almost impossible for me to join him.

More and more, I noticed his coming home reeking of alcohol. He always enjoyed a couple of drinks but never before did he come home dead drunk. After a while I also figured out that he was using drugs as well. When I begged him to let me help him with his new drinking and drug habits, he seemed to tote ignore me. The only thing he kept repeating was that it was all my fault because worked too much and didn't have enough time for him.

Our relationship drifted more and more, and we were seeing each other le and less. Eventually, I didn't even know what time he came home at night because was so late and I was already sleeping.

One day, a perfumed card arrived in the mail from a woman who thanked husband for such a wonderful evening. This card was defiantly not the kind of card one professional would send to another. Anyway, he eventually moved out, saying he needed time to think.

Of course, he never came back and we finally did divorce. I blamed myself instantly, thinking that I was selfish to want a full time career, instead of having more to cater to my husband. It would have saved me a lot of grief if only someone had told me sooner that my husband always cheated on me from day one of our marriage

Funny, how I was the last to know."

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

When a spouse states they are at work, at a meeting, or out with associates, the smell of perfume or alcohol should not come into the picture if they are telling truth. For example, when a female is dating a male, she will always wear perfume and lipstick. Many men tell their girlfriends that they are single.

The man can't tell a female not to wear perfume and lipstick, as that would tip off the female that he was married. The man will try not to get too close to the female during the date. He might take along a change of clothing and switch back, so that the wife doesn't get suspicious.
 
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