Cheating Spouse Sign 20: Finding Birth Control Items
These signs are from The 28 Tell-Tale Signs of a Cheating Spouse written by Anthony DeLorenzo, a nationally known private investigator, and his wife Dawn Ricci who is also a leading expert in the field. Tony has appeared on Oprah and other national shows.
CASE STUDY - "BRIAN"
"Everything seemed to be right until we decided to have children. Those first couple of years were tough, especially since we were blessed with twins. Someone always crying, or a diaper needed to be changed.
I earn a good living, so my wife was able to stay at home and raise them. She was quite often very cranky and restless, and was even jealous of me for being to get out of the house to go to work. I told her that soon they would grow up and be in nursery school.
I reasoned that then she'd have a breather for a couple of hours and could pursue other interests. Although I loved my kids, I wasn't happy with the way my wife changed. We hardly went out anymore, and sex was next to non-existent.
When the kids did start school, my wife was so happy to have some freedom. She joined a gym and resumed playing tennis. In the beginning, I was very glad things were finally turning around. But that euphoria lasted only for a couple of months — then she started to distance herself from me again.
I couldn't understand what was happening. Then one day I couldn't find a favorite belt while I was getting dressed. I spotted it on the closet floor behind her shoes. When I picked it up I noticed a box of condoms stuffed in my wife's shoebox — what the heck is this! My wife has been on the pill ever since the birth of our twins. I stormed out of the closet like a madman looking for my wife, and found her in the laundry room. I don't recall ever being as angry — I must have scared her to death. After all we've been through, and how much patience and love I tried to show, this was how she repaid me?
She finally confessed that she was having an affair with her tennis coach and made him wear a condom for protection against any diseases. She insisted it didn’t mean anything, but it certainly did to me!"
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
Finding birth control items in your spouse's car, luggage, clothing, or hidden away in the house would compel you to confront them. This sign is for those couples who don't use contraceptives or haven't in years. You can't expect your spouse to admit to their infidelity—because they won't.
If you confront them, they will probably use the excuses of: 1) It isn't mine, my friend is having an affair. 2) I'm holding it for someone else. 3) It's ours from a long time ago, don't you remember?
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