Should I Stay Married Or Get Divorced?
Barry Roche, a former divorce lawyer, is the author of the ebook, "How To Win When Facing Divorce."
I do know that the major causes of marriage breakup are: -
1. Debt and lack of money.
2. Lack of sex.
3. Infidelity.
4. Spousal Abuse - either emotional, verbal and/or physical.
5. Baggage from a previous relationship or from childhood.
6. Unrealistic expectations.
If financial struggle gets too burdensome and a better offer comes a long, that spouse is likely to head for greener pastures! Lack of sex or a complete absence of marital bedroom gymnastics won't meet the needs of a person with a healthy libido. If a person has needs you can bet they will eventually seek a solution to their frustration!
Domestic violence is simply unacceptable. Some experts believe that perpetrators of spousal abuse can change their ways. I have my doubts. If the violence is due to alcohol or stress and these triggers are removed, then the abuse shouldn't occur. However, this is not the same thing as a "cure".
My view is that if you suffer from Battered Wife Syndrome, the sooner you separate and divorce the better! Still, most women in this situation put up with spousal abuse (and therefore remain a domestic violence victim) in the hope that he will change or that if they "walk on eggshells" the other spouse won't get angry - WRONG!!
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