Sign 14: Receiving An Anonymous Phone Call

Tony DeLorenzo and Dawn Ricci

These signs are from The 28 Tell-Tale Signs of a Cheating Spouse written by Anthony DeLorenzo, a nationally known private investigator, and his wife Dawn Ricci who is also a leading expert in the field. Tony has appeared on Oprah and many national shows.

Receiving an anonymous phone call telling you to watch your spouse more carefully is usually from a concerned person who knows of the affair. This person has feelings for you and does not want you to be the last one to know.

CASE STUDY - "SUZANNE"

"Out of the blue I started receiving mysterious phone calls. The caller spoke in a very muffled voice, and I had a hard time figuring out whether it was a male or a female.

This caller kept telling me that my husband was having an affair with his sec­retary. I was very upset by these calls, but my husband reassured me that a co-worker was probably jealous of his recent promotion at work and might be trying to stir up some trouble on the home front. I wanted desperately to believe him—after all we were married for more than ten years.

Then one day, this anonymous caller told me that my husband would be out that night with his girlfriend at a restaurant that I knew. Sure enough, later on that same day, my husband called to tell me that he would be out late that night on business. I couldn't stand it anymore, I just had to know what was going on.

That evening I decided to take a chance and go to the restaurant to see if caller was just upsetting me for no good reason. I walked in, went past the bar around then I stopped dead in my tracks. I couldn't believe my eyes. My husband and secretary were sitting cozily at a corner table sipping champagne.

I later found out that the "caller" was his secretary, who called me because she wanted me to know about the affair. She figured that my knowledge of the affair we cause our marriage to break up. Sadly, she was right. It did break up our marriage then I found out that he dumped her, too!"

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

Receiving an anonymous phone call telling you to watch your spouse more

carefully is usually from a concerned person who knows of the affair. This person has feelings for you and does not want you to be the last one to know. If your spouse is an extra-marital affair, you probably are the last to know No one has the heart to tell you in person.

In some cases, it could be an "old flame" who calls, who was possibly

dropped for another lover. The friend calling you believes he or she is breaking up the new relationship and that the spouse will come back.

It also could be a friend, neighbor, your spouse's secretary, or even the lover's spouse. If this happens, use the call to your advantage by asking questions.
 
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