Cheating Spouse Sign 16: Wearing a new style of clothing

Tony DeLorenzo and Dawn Ricci

These signs are from The 28 Tell-Tale Signs of a Cheating Spouse written by Anthony DeLorenzo, a nationally known private investigator, and his wife Dawn Ricci who is also a leading expert in the field. Tony has appeared on Oprah and other national shows.

If your spouse claims that he or she wants to feel young and single again, they will usually buy a new wardrobe. Or your spouse may suddenly claim that his or her present wardrobe is either outdated or has the basic business look.

CASE STUDY — JOHN

"Ever since the kids were born, my wife has been battling with her weight. It really didn't matter to me that she was a little overweight, but it killed her not to be at - to fit into her old jeans.

Finally, after what seemed like the hundredth diet, she finally did it. She lost of the extra weight and fit comfortably into her old jeans again. I had to admit, she looked great! She told me that she deserved a reward for her hard won battle an: agreed. So off she went to the mall, while I was home with the kids.

She was so excited when she got home, that she reminded me of a little on Christmas morning opening up the presents. The problem was that I was shocked at her purchases. All the clothes looked so tiny, that I couldn't believe that she would fit in them, let alone wear them. And some of the stuff looked down right sillily too - and I wasn't ashamed to say so.

She said I was just being old fashioned, and that I should lighten up. After a couple of months of my wife's "new look," I couldn't stand it anymore. I didn't like way she was acting, and I certainly didn't like the looks she was getting when we out. One day, my friend told me that he saw my wife having lunch at a fast food chain with a younger man. Then he noticed that the guy walked her out to her and ­gave her a nice long kiss on the mouth. I confronted my wife and told her the friend saw her. She said it was just lunch, and it didn't mean anything else.

I love my wife too much to take a chance on losing her. Whatever our problems are, I am determined to solve them. I talked to my wife about going to ma, counseling and she has agreed."

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

If your spouse claims that he or she wants to feel young and single again,
they will usually buy a new wardrobe. Or your spouse may suddenly claim that his or her present wardrobe is either outdated or has the basic business look. It is up to you to decide if your spouse's behavior is out of the ordinary. For example, your spouse might have bought the type of clothing that you have probably been trying to get them to wear for years. The spouse will attempt to purchase what the lover chooses. Or the lover will go shopping for your spouse who tells you he or she bought it.
 
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