Cheating Spouse Sign 24: Taking Business Trips Alone
These signs are from The 28 Tell-Tale Signs of a Cheating Spouse written by Anthony DeLorenzo, a nationally known private investigator, and his wife Dawn Ricci who is also a leading expert in the field. Tony has appeared on Oprah and other national shows.
CASE STUDY - "SAMANTHA"
"My husband and I live a very comfortable life. We love to travel, and take family vacations with the kids — but most of the time we preferred to travel together. Many of our trips were combined with business, since my husband's clients are all over the world. Last year, health problems made it difficult for me to travel so my husband went on his business trips alone.
When I finally felt much better and told my husband that I would be fine to travel with him, he got flustered, and said the company was cutting expenses for extra persons. I said we could afford to pay for my half, but he said that he would be working round the clock and I'd be happier at home.
So I offered to drive him to the airport, and said I'd pick him up on his return. He said the company would send a limousine. My inner self told me something was wrong, so I insisted. He gave in, but at the airport he insisted that I just drop him off. Driving home, I thought about how anxious he was to get out of Suddenly, I was heading back to the airport — and soon I was rushing to the gate where his flight was. Running through the terminal like a maniac, I stopped dead in my tracks. I spotted my husband and his secretary sitting together cozily. As I heard his flight announced, and they got up arm in arm and boarded the plane.
I was in such shock that I couldn't even drive home. I just sat in my car and cried. While I had been home sick, he had been busy playing around. But at 52 years old, I was used to my comfortable life and couldn't imagine being alone the rest of my life.
I decided to hope that in time he would break off the affair. He never knew that I saw them together, or about the pain that it caused me."
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
Taking business trips alone when at one time you were always invited along can often be a sign of a spouse with something to hide. If a spouse travels a lot for the company, he or she might be having the lover come along for a mini-vacation. The lover could be a co-worker who also must attend the business trip.
It doesn't cost the subject much money, as the company is already providing the hotel, food, car rental and other expenses. By having the lover along, the spouse will be more relaxed — not having to worry about anyone seeing them. They will have a great time at their company's expense.
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