Two weeks until we see each other face to face (my WSO and me). After screaming obscenities at my son yesterday I finally reached out (actually someone on this site suggested goasksuzie.com) they are calling me tonight. I have written the OW (she was “insulted” when I called their relationship an “affair” on the “phone call”  because she was trying to convince me she didn’t know about me and that they were “love/life partners”) Anyway it’s a real nasty letter, but I will never stoop to that kind of pain inflicting as she has on me. Hers was all innocent like, “All my best to you, love can only exist with trust, you/we as women will move on to something better etc.) But while writing and speaking those words knowing she did her best to break us up in the first place. When he broke it off with her is when she decided to spill it to me. Gosh I feel for all you others out there.