Posted By: starrlite77 on Jul. 15, 2008 at 5:34 PM

Surviving infidelity and coping with the infidelity of a cheating spouse. Learn the signs of infidelity as well as how to recognize emotional infidelity.

I will be real quick, I am new to this site. On May 21 my husband admitted to his afffair. What really pisses me off that it emotional as well as physical. He told her our business, how we werent as sexual like it was before, I don;t give him any atttention, or how I didn't clean in a timely manner. I guess he forgot that I work hard at a hospital as a Tech and he had to do his part also. It had got to a point where she was making plans to relocate with him because he got a job offer in another state, he claim that he was going along with it so she wouldn't tell on him but I don't believe that. I am still pissed but not as bad. I am tired of crying, I have never cried so much in my life. I can go on for days on the stuff they did, but I gave him an option to leave, but he said that he wanted to stay and work out the marraige. We talk sometimes on what he did and i find it helps the both of us. And we are going into counseling. But there is a part of me that don't trust him. Just wanted to get that off my chest.

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Wow, that is very difficult. I too am going through infidelity in my relationship. Its not easy. I find that no one really says the right thing to me and there are days when I'd like to be on top of a building picking people off. But I don't, I have a child and one on the way so i have to keep it together. I'm sorry for you and I hope things get better.

Posted By Shiree29 on Jul. 16, 2008 at 4:06 PM


I at last don't feel like the dumbest person on the earth...I found out a month ago that my husband lives a double life. One is husband and father, decent guy, very loving and attentive. The other life is totally fabricated and lives in cyberspace. Apparently, last fall he just had to see what being that other person would be like in real life. He began hooking up with all kinds of internet trash (anyone who meets someone online and then fucks them is a ho in the biggest sense of the word) telling them all this bullshit of who he was ( that he really isn't) then started getting phone calls from all over...these were his "girls"
We have been married for 21 years!!!!! We have 4 kids, they are all fantastic. We built a life..I just can't comprehend the way he just walked away from it...like it meant nothing.
Try to hide my crying jags from my kids but sometimes,they evolve into full blown panic attacks. Today has sucked! I know exactly how you feel. He is just a lying bastard.

Posted By sjj1963us on Jul. 16, 2008 at 11:51 PM


I been married to my husband for 15 years and recently found out he cheating 4 times in the past 15 years. I fell so betrayed he was my first love. I got pregnant at the age of 15 and been with him since. I found out he was dating a girl from work for over a year. I'm now 29 with 2 kids. I never felt pain as I feel today. Is my marriage worth saving?

Posted By Public Guest on Jul. 17, 2008 at 2:16 AM


My H's affair was emotional too and for me that's the hardest thing to get over. The fact that he pretty much ignored me and told this woman "anything and everything" is just devastating! I've given 14 yrs of marriage to this man and 3 wonderful children...and this is what I get in return.

Posted By crh319 on Jul. 24, 2008 at 4:10 PM


I have been married 28 years. The big hit came at year 27. Internet pig too plus heavy internet porn. I agree with all of you. It is hard. We have made it past the year "anniversay". Not sure where it's going. Still cry ALOT. Some days I can make it go away for awhile. Just be careful not to get sucked into alcohol, drugs etc. yourself. Work helps sometimes, but even that stinks sometimes. You do what feels right for you. We are all in the same boat but have to do what works for us. I keep trying, at least I can say I did that if it falls apart.

Posted By Public Guest on Aug. 6, 2008 at 6:51 AM


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