Posted By: I'm a Sucker on Aug. 10, 2008 at 9:21 AM

Surviving infidelity and coping with the infidelity of a cheating spouse. Learn the signs of infidelity as well as how to recognize emotional infidelity.

Can anyone shed some light on this situation for me? Why would your spouse still lie and say "I don't know" to most of the questions asked about the infedelity. This is 11 months past the time it was found out. I can't seem to move forward with all this and do not understand. She was caught and it is known so what is the point of lying or saying you don't know when questions are asked about it. I must ask specific questions to move on so why do I get the different answers to the same questions asked before or the I do not know line? There has got to be a logic explaination as to why but I can not to save my life figure it out.

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Several reasons they do this:
They do not want to fully face to themselves what they have done.
They think they are protecting you when in reality, they are protecting themselves because they fear that if you know the details you will leave them.
They are minimizing in their mind what they have done.

Posted By Public Guest on Aug. 10, 2008 at 11:32 AM


My SO gives the "I don't knows" too.

michellesrival

Posted By Public Guest on Aug. 16, 2008 at 2:22 AM


Mine does the same thing, we know why they say it, we just don't want to admit it. It is easier than telling us the truth. They think they are doing us a favor.

Posted By SADINGA on Aug. 20, 2008 at 9:16 PM


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